sample the followin - nicked without permission - off some etiquette website; emphasis mine:
Most wee islanders arrive at social events on time or slightly late. According to certain customary beliefs, a visitor who arrives on time for a meal gives the impression of being greedy.
oh really? how about the way they rush for food with their chopsticks the moment dishes are put on the table? that's not bein greedy then? oh and don't make me start about their eatin without closin their massive gob's.
that may also explain why the national campaign on punctuality for chinese weddin dinners is a total failure.
as enscribed by the letter b @ May 2, 2005 07:16 AM